How to make good spicy tantanmen In a pan over high heat, add the oil. Add the ground pork and cook until well browned. Add the soy sauce and peanut butter and cook until peanut butter is liquid. Add the water, milk, and ramen seasoning packets and stir to combine, then bring to a boil. Add the ramen noodles and cook until noodles are tender. Place everything into a bowl and top with chili oil.