December 1938,
Sunday.
[ The first fragment in the Notebooks later used in
The Plague ]
It is to Jeanne that some of my purest joys are linked. She often used to say to me:"You're silly." It was her expression, the one she used when she laughed, but she always said it when she loved me most. We both came from poor families. She lived a few streets away from me, in the rue du centre. Neither of us ever went out of our own neighborhood, for everything brought us back to it. And in both our homes we found the same sadness and the same sordid life. Meeting each other was a way of escaping from all this. Yet today, when I look back over so many years and see her face, like a tired child's, I realize that we were not really escaping from it, and that what is now priceless in our love stemmed from the very shadow which this poverty cast over us.
I think that I really did suffer when I lost her, but I had no feelings of rebellion. This is because I have never really felt at ease in ownership. Regret has always seemed much more natural to me. And although I can see my feelings quite clearly, I have never been able to stop thinking that Jeanne is much more a part of me at a moment like today than she was when she stood a little on tiptoe to put her arms around my neck. I can't remember how I met her. But I know that I used to go to visit her at her home. And that her father and mother laughed when they saw us. Her father worked on the railroad, and when he was at home he always sat in a corner, looking thoughtfully out of the window, his enormous hands flat on his thighs. Her mother was always doing housework. So was Jeanne, but in such a light and carefree manner that she never looked as if she was really working. She wasn't very small, but always looked so to me. And I felt she was so light and tiny that I always had a twinge of sadness when I saw her dart across the road in front of the trucks. I can see now that she was probably not very intelligent. But at the time, I never thought about it. She had her own particular way of playing at being cross that almost made me cry with delight. And this heart, now closed to so much, can still be touched by the memory of the secret gesture she would make when she turned around and threw herself into my arms when I begged her to forgive me. I can’t remember now whether I wanted her physically or not. I know that everything was mixed up, and that all my feelings melted into tenderness. If I did want her, I forgot about it the first day that, in the corridor of her flat, she kissed me to thank me for a little brooch that I had given her. With her hair drawn back, her uneven mouth with its rather large teeth, her clear eyes and straight nose, she looked that evening like a child that I had brought into the world for the sake of its love and tenderness. Helped by Jeanne herself, who always called me her Big friend," I kept that impression for a long time.
There was a strange quality to the joys we shared together. When we got engaged, she was eighteen and I twenty-two. But what filled our hearts with grave and joyful love was the official character that it now had. And for Jeanne to come home with me, for mother to kiss her and call her "my girl”, were all opportunities for rather ridiculous moments of joy that we made no attempts to hide. But Jeanne's memory is linked in my mind with an impression that I shall never be able to express. I can still feel it, however, and I only need to be sad, see a woman whose face touches me, and then come across a brilliantly lit shop front, to find Jeanne with me again, her face turned toward me as she says: "How lovely," and be hurt by the truth of the memory. It was at Christmas time, and the local shops made a great show with lights and decoration. We would stop in front of the confectioners' windows. The chocolate models, the imitation rockwork of gold and silver paper, the snowflakes of cotton wool, the gilded plates and rainbow cakes, all sent us into raptures. I felt a little ashamed, but I could not hold back the upsurge of joy that filled my whole being and brought tears to Jeanne’s eyes.
If, today I try to analyze this feeling, I can find many different things in it. Certainly, this joy came first and foremost from Jeanne-from her scent and the way she used to hold tightly on to my wrist, or pout her lips. But there was also the sudden brightness of the shops in a neighborhood that was normally so dark, the hurried air of the passers-by, laden with parcels, the delight of the children in the streets, which all helped to tear us from our world of loneliness. The silver paper around the chocolates was the sign that a confused but noisy and golden period was beginning for the simple-hearted, and Jeanne and I snuggled closer together. Perhaps we were vaguely aware of the particular happiness that a man feels when his life falls into harmony with what he is himself. Normally, we carried the magic desert of our love through a world from which love had disappeared. And on days like these, it seemed that the flame which rose in us when we held hands was the same one which we saw dancing in the shop windows, in the hearts of the workmen who had turned around to look at their children, and in the depths of the pure and icy December sky.